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“Every habit and capability is confirmed and grows in its corresponding actions, walking by walking, and running by running . . . therefore, if you want to do something, make a habit of it, if you don’t want to do that, don’t, but make a habit of something else instead.”– EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES
This book has two parts.
Part 1 is a primer on the “art of living.” It introduces timeless principles and practices, developed over millennia, potentializing us to be better human-beings and live better lives. Wisdom can be found in many places, but here we concentrate mainly on principles from the ancient Greek school of stoicism. The stoic school was built as a practical guidebook to the art of living. It was meant to help people live in accordance with the Socratic virtues, which still form the moral base of our western society 2500 years later. The principles and practices of stoicism form, in many ways, the foundation of cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), a modern psychotherapy used to help maximize happiness and satisfaction with life. The stoics thought it was impossible for us to fully embody the ideal man; however, making the attempt was the goal of life. Their principles have stood the test of time, meaning their effectiveness won’t change in our lifetimes, and for that reason they’re as good a candidate as any to use as the foundation on which to base our lives.
Part 2 is about habits. Those unconscious behavioral patterns that run our lives. We must learn to develop and break habits so we can incorporate stoic wisdom as permanent behavioral change. Becoming wise and living a better life isn’t done with the acquisition of knowledge; it’s done only when we’ve modified our daily behavior for the long run. As you’ll learn in this book, this can be done systematically through progressive training and with the use of a habit implementation framework.